Differences Between Men and Women’s Responses
Men are aroused by real-world erotic stimuli. Women experience emotional sensations with a lover. A woman’s experience of orgasm is quite separate to her relationship.
The Ability to See a Partner As a Sex ObjectArousal is caused by erotic objects or concepts. Men’s instincts cause them to view their lovers as sex objects. Women’s fantasies use fictitious men as objects of arousal.
The Mental Focus Required to Achieve OrgasmAnyone who masturbates must use erotic fantasy for arousal. Our mental response to eroticism motivates us to seek stimulation. Even for a responsive woman, her arousal must be consciously generated.
Arousal Is Psychological and Arises in the MindSexual arousal is a form of nervous excitement. Women are never aroused as men are with a lover. We all achieve orgasm alone in our own minds.
Similarities Between Men & Women’s ResponsesOrgasm is a physiological response of the nervous system. Men’s reproductive function & responsiveness are aligned. Female responsiveness mirrors (parallels) male responsiveness.
The Kind of Stimulation That Leads to OrgasmWe must be able to reliably obtain the stimulation needed for orgasm. Anyone who can orgasm, knows what anatomy they need to stimulate. Both sexes massage the blood within the corpora cavernosa of the phallus.
Orgasm Is a Response to Stimuli of an Erotic NatureWe don’t orgasm because we are given information. Mental arousal arises as the brain responds to eroticism. Tumescence of the phallus initiates instinctive stimulation.
Orgasm Is a Very Specific One-Off Sexual ReleaseOrgasm depends on the mind responding to erotic concepts. Once aroused, we massage the blood flow within the phallus. Orgasm occurs sporadically with rest periods in between.
Women Only Orgasm When Alone Not With a LoverMale sex drive makes another person critical. Female masturbation is a miracle of evolution. Women’s fantasies cannot be used with a lover.
Women Mistake Emotional Sensations for OrgasmErotic fiction lead women to assume that they should orgasm. Women often stimulate themselves without ever achieving orgasm. Most women are unaware that orgasm is a result of mental arousal.
